I’ve tweeted and whined on a couple of occasions this week about being floored with the flu. I think it’s partly the result of a drain by that energy vampire I talked about earlier.
Yes, it’s the flu season but the timing, suddenness and severity of my condition made me think. I am a sixth [...]
Archive for the ‘Aversion’ Category
Poleaxed!
Posted in Aversion, tagged energy vampires on 16 October 2009 | 6 Comments »
Aural textures
Posted in Aversion, Cinema, Thinking, tagged aura on 9 August 2009 | 7 Comments »
Is it possible for auras to have textures? Words use to describe auras tend to be visual: clear, bright, dark, murky, and so on; sometimes even in colours. Is it possible to come into contact with someone whose aura feels slimey? Where coming into contact with them makes you feel the need to scrub it [...]
Day before the solar eclipse II: 8th house savings?
Posted in Astrology, Aversion, tagged solar eclipse on 21 July 2009 | Leave a Comment »
One of the things the eclipse in my 8th house is supposed to jumpstart is my finances, which has been under strain lately.
Not playing the ‘Who’s the bigger victim?’ game
Posted in Annoyance, Aversion, Thinking, tagged emotional vampires on 13 July 2009 | 6 Comments »
One of the types of people that feed off my energy and whom I am slowly weaning off are the ones who play what I like to call the ‘Who’s the bigger victim?’ game. These are the people that appear to connect with you quickly from the start by sharing their problems. Because of [...]
Walking the dotted line: Thoughts on Mercury retrograding in Aquarius at the Cancer Full Moon
Posted in Annoyance, Astrology, Aversion, Thinking, tagged boundaries, passive aggression on 16 January 2009 | Leave a Comment »
[Cross-posted on my Mercury Retrograde blog.]
Elsa P.’s blog on the Saturn-Uranus opposition and boundary issues prompted me to post a comment there, and to address the blast from the past I’d previously repressed.
This is what I wrote:
Very insightful as usual, Elsa! Thank you!
Funnily enough I have my IC/MC on the axis of 19+ [...]
Bearing someone else’s karma
Posted in Aversion, Buddhism, Compassion, Karma, Suffering, tagged compassion fatigue, Dalai Lama on 15 September 2008 | 2 Comments »
I read this excerpt from a selection of talks, called The Transformed Mind: Reflections on Truth, Love and Happiness, given by HH the 14th Dalai Lama.
Is it possible to bear somebody else’s karma for them?
Generally speaking, according to Buddhist teaching, you will not encounter the results of an action that you have not committed, and [...]
Emotional vampires
Posted in Aversion, Awareness, Ego, Thinking, tagged emotional vampires, projection on 25 August 2008 | 2 Comments »
A search for a cookbook (I was looking for Nigel Slater’s Real Fast Puddings!) turned up something else completely. I picked up a book I bought years ago when I was in the midst of being drained. That book is Albert Bernstein’s Emotional Vampires, which offers advice on how to deal with people who [...]
Acting on desire II: sex and the art of good conversation
Posted in Aversion, Desire, Love, Responsibility, tagged conversation, Kamasutra of Vatsayana, sex, sixty-four arts of love on 10 February 2008 | 3 Comments »
Part I
For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. — Isabel Allende
As synchronicity, and serendipity, would have it, my ex-boyfriend (not quite the right word, but it’ll have to do) turned up online as I was [...]